Do you know what you want in a woman? If so, finding these traits can be difficult and if you don’t know what you want then it may seem impossible. However, don’t get discouraged. It isn’t as hard as you might think to find the right woman.
In your life you will meet people from all different walks of life. It is very important to stay open-minded. You may need to throw out the mentality that you were raised with and start from scratch. Forget what your friends or family say is “attractive” or “pretty.”. Don’t let what the media or advertising say is “beautiful” cloud your judgement. You want to start with the very basics of what makes two people (in general) compatible with one another.
To decide what is best for you, it’s important to consider the complete person. You need to take into account their personality, ambition, interests, and then looks. Of course looks are important as you want to be with someone that is physically appealing to you, but you can’t let that be the only deciding factor. If you consider the persons looks first it can distort your judgement of the persons other positive traits.
Men are stimulated visually, and what excites them at first is usually what they want. However, if you factor in all the other traits of the person then looks may not be that important. You may find a girl with a great personality that likes soccer and traveling as much as you do and takes here career as a marketing director seriously, but is a brunette with an average build can suit you just fine. Ambition, Sense of Humor, Personality, and Interests all play a much bigger role than physical appearance.